The Mother of the bride chooses her dress before the Mother of the groom. If the parties are friends, perhaps they could even shop together. The dresses should complement the bridal party colors so that they look great in pictures and they should complement each other. The mothers’ dresses should be similar in length. Floor or tea length dresses follow standard etiquette at most weddings. Floor length dresses should be worn at very formal occasions. Suits are acceptable at more informal celebrations. Etiquette says no white dresses can be worn by the mothers and black is seen as bad luck. Neutral colors are always safe. Be certain to tell each other what you are wearing so you don’t show up in the same dress!

This is a busy day, your dress should comfortable and tastefully elegant. Avoid prints and floral designs. Solid colors will look best in the photographs. Take a swatch of the bridesmaid dresses along if one is available so you can be sure the colors don’t clash. You are going to be on your feet all day so try to find something both stylish and comfortable. Choose a hair style that will hold up all day and all night. Wear jewelry that is elegant and tastefully compliments your attire. No watch should be worn. Neither should heels over 2 inches. These are simply guidelines to follow when choosing attire for your big day! Talk to the bride and groom to see what they feel is acceptable.

Have fun and enjoy a wonderful wedding celebration!